2017 as it happens ...

I can't believe I have been writing this blog for 5 years now! Well another one starts and you will see that it starts earlier than ever this year. So far things looking busy so follow what happens in the next 12 months here. 

Rosemary & Ian Parc del laberint 25/1

So the year started and January was exactly what it should be ... cold. With snow falling throughout Catalonia Barcelona was saved and even the rain stopped for the ceremony. Rosemary and Ian were perfect, they wrote me great material to make their ceremony special and, as I said, the rain held off, it was cold but a great winter wedding.

Abbey & Andre Arenys de Munt 11/2

It is a brave couple who marry on 11th February! It didn't rain, at least not during the ceremony, ok it was a bit cool, but the couple were too. 20 or so friends from around the globe and their dog Fiji did the right thing with the rings. A great day for all I think, even had the eye of Abby's father, a wedding photographer, very much on us and feel all were pleased with the outcome.

Note Andre's trainers, he warned that they would be there and they were, just goes to show that you can look great and still be honest to your own style, not to mention the radiant Abby!
Note Andre's trainers, he warned that they would be there and they were, just goes to show that you can look great and still be honest to your own style, not to mention the radiant Abby!

Stephanie & Hassan Sitges 3/3

March 3rd was always going to be risky but when it is 10 years to the day after Stephanie and Hassan started going out it was a must. In the end we found a quiet part of their hotel for the ceremony since wind and cold meant that the beach wasn't an option. I had my youngest ever witness, Kaysan (3). Steph's whatsapp after the ceremony "Thank u so much for today Toby it was truly lovely was so emotional too". What more can you ask for? 

When your son signs your vow renewal certificate I think it means you really are well and truly married!
When your son signs your vow renewal certificate I think it means you really are well and truly married!

Cristy & Ariel Parc de Laberint d'Horta 18/3

Cristy and Ariel married on the most beautiful day possible, one of those days when spring is so much in the air it is everywhere. It was warm and the sun shone and magical things happened. There were two girls recording a video clip of the song "Cambia, todo cambia" who I couldn't resist asking to accompany us in this very small intimate ceremony ... and they did! Once again the photos were by Veronica and it was all very special ... congratulations!

Katie and Jonny Almiral de la Font, Sitges 8/4

What a perfect day, especially for kilts, and there were lots of them about. Katie and Jonny seemed happy and relaxed and the few comments I had after the ceremony were all very positive, unfortunately I had to jump n to the car and head off to the other end of the country! That having been said however, it was a lovely ceremony and juyst a pity the Welsh Crooner couldn't make it.

Harriet & Christian Castell d'Empordà 8/4

They laughed and laughed, and there was some lip quivering at vows, there were Danes and Brits and people from all over and the whole thing was great. Harriet did say that maybe she shouldn't have shared so much with me, I do always say however, that I never make things up, simply rephrase and make my own whatever I am sent! It was lots of fun and happy people at the end.

Jenni & Paul Almiral de la Font 15/4

Wow, what a do! Paul sent me 10 chapters on Jenni and Jenni was never going to be out done so there was LOTS of material. Everyone seemed to have a great time and the feedback was very positive, I left them under the Sitges' sun out on the newly built deck in the Almiral de la Font, and all looked like it was ready to swing. 

HAnnah & David CASTELL D'EMPORDÀ 22/4

Hannah a Brit and David a Catalan met 6 years ago and have never looked back. Their wedding was very much a bi-lingual affair with Hannah's Dad Sean even daring to let rip with a speech in Catalan, brave man. The whole thing was right up my street, very 50/50, and from the feedback I got enjoyed by all. It was a day to remember, beautifully sunny and quite something else. That might sound strange because, as you can see from this page, I do lots of weddings over the course of the year. At the time of writing I have 54 planned throughout the year and that is a lot. Each one, however, is very different, yes the shape might be the same, but whether it is adding things in other languages or the things that the couple decide to share with me or the input of other family members and friends makes each unique and a joy to be part of! I was so much part of this one I totally forgot the picture at the end! Here are a couple of the venue and yours truly just before starting ....


Another small wedding, Kate insisted that this was a ceremony that would "take the pressure off" for their big one back home next year. It was a glorious day but also May 1st and a national holiday so there were hundreds of people in the park but we managed to find the perfect spot and had an intimate little ceremony with no "pressure". It was great, Jordi, their photographer wanted lots of photos of "the" kiss and after about 5 Kate said very clearly that this was "gross" but there was definitely a smile on both of their faces!!! May has started and the season is very much on. 

Esther i Angel Castell de Sant Marçal 6/5

Now I really should write this is either Spanish or Catalan since they were the languages of the ceremony but I won't since all the rest of the blog is in English. This was a wedding organised by Toni Segui in the Castell de Sant Marçal were the couple knew the venue but very little else, the rest was a surprise, a dream come true for many getting married I am sure, though maybe not for all. I have done quite a few weddings in the incredible venue but  this is the first time that a stage has been built over the pond and it was beautiful (see picture below). I think the biggest surprise came at the end when all the guests set butterflies free from boxes they had been given by the organisers, if you look very closely at the photos you can see them. Really quite something else. All that and the actual ceremony went down well too! What more can you ask for? 

Karly & Marty Mas Xipres 9/5

I hate to say that some weddings are more special than others, they aren't, but often when they are very small affairs you feel more involved in the whole thing and this was the case here. As Larry, Marty's father asked me to stay and consider myself part of the family it was difficult to drag myself away but I was needed elsewhere. On top of that the venue was Mas Xipres one of the very first venues I went to often to do weddings. Here they can cater for small groups with a beautiful little church for indoor or at the doors of the place for outdoors. They know how to create a perfect ambience and it really was utterly perfect. Karly had no idea what Marty would do during the ceremony and I am pleased to report he cried! All in all another lovely day ... and what a great card they found for me!

... Mas Xipres ...
... Mas Xipres ...

Kate & Luke Castell d'Empordà 13/5

What a wedding, what a day, all perfect. Luke wrote me a book and Kate was simple and to the point. It seems like this is a bit of the sort of thing that is happening this year ... the men are finally coming in to their own! Can I say that the wedding was so good I couldn't capture it in a photo, or I was so involved I forgot ... you take your pick but it really was great.

Tamsin & Dan Mas Torroella 17/5

So this one was summed up by Jemma, the maid of honour, "I didn't really think that they were organised enough to create something so perfect", see Oscar Wilde's Ballad of Reading Gaol to understand that one better! But it was perfect, glorious day and Mas Torroella is just about as good as it gets and highly recommended. Small family do, all the men dressed the same, even Dan, fortunately there was only one perfect bride: Tamsin.

Tamsin and Dan, 3 of the 4 grandmothers present and 2 parents ...
Tamsin and Dan, 3 of the 4 grandmothers present and 2 parents ...

Katia & Mark Casa Nova, Sitges 20/5

Katia and Captain Mark met on boats, she cooking he captaining and, though never plain sailing, they finally made it to the symbolic alter this weekend. The weather was perfect and so were their small but close knit group of friends and family. The guitarist was a star and when Mark's son Floyd came up with the rings he played "Wish you were here" on my suggestion. Lots of laughs and lots of fun!

Zoë & Darragh Hotel S'Agaró 27/5

Zoë and Darragh, Ireland and Brit Catalan mix all together. KL, Brunei, the Empordà and Kildsart and mixed up in a huge cocktail with 140 guests from as many countries, it was a lovely tower of babel sort of thing. Music by Gavin (on my people and places page) and organised by Marina who I have never met before though all went smoothly and she was definitely on top of everything. A fine time and a great wedding. 

Katie & Gooch Castell d'Empordà 28/5

I get so envious of the Scots when it comes to summer weddings, the temperature at 33º and they are in kilts, as were many of Katie's friends and family today. Gooch was dressed in a suit I want and all were very happy. They loved the ceremony and the feedback for the short time I hung around was all great. A beautiful day at the end of May ... congratulations! I don't often mention flowers but these were done by Lali, the new business partner to one of my favourite photographers, Neus Cirera (and Tomayo), we have a little mutual appreciation society.

Stefanie & Lee Almiral de la Font 29/5

Every couple is different, every story unique. These two started way back when ... 10 and 11!!! But then nothing, then a date in London, then nothing, then he took the photos at her engagement party and, fortunately, nothing! A meandering route to their beautiful wedding in the Almiral de la Font in Sitges so many years down the line. On the day: Lee lost his shoes and Stef added it to her list, I think that that covers both their specialities ... Stef's mother came and talked with me afterwards and, shall we just say that it looked like we would both end in tears but we kept it together! There were 3 readings and a song! All fabulous, but really fabulous. Below are pohtos of the singer, the venue and Lee and Steph.

Hannah & Lee Almiral de la Font 1/6

In the space of just 4 days I get to marry two very different Lee's in the same venue, a treat but also a worry! I didn't get them confused though and they seemed to have a lovely time at their wedding beautifully organised by Val and Africa as ever. The novelty here was that they decided to use the deck built last year that most couple use as their "aperatif" site and it worked really well.


Well well well ... what a wedding. The Flower of Scotland married the John Deere rider, my tractor, my tractor, my kingdom for a tractor! It rained a little in Sitges during the wedding but all was OK because they had organised it in the lovely Masia Victoria in Sant Pere de Ribes and the ceremony was always going to be inside. There was a sharing of a dram between the fathers, Hugh Grant! Not him, but the fathers Hugh and Grant, the whisky was kept by Kimberley's grandfather (Papa) who died 9 years ago and he had always said it was going to be opened on her wedding day, and it was! We had grandparents watching online from the UK and ... I could go on forever. So good was it all that I forgot to take a picture but have asked them to send me one so watch this space.


... and off to wedding nº2 of the day, sometimes it must be done but there was a 2 hour drive up to the Far! The trip though, was well worth it, this was a wedding entirely in Catalan save a couple of things in English and Spanish and it was, once again, a joy! Organised by Neus the whole thing was perfect, and the setting couldn't be better, see the photos below. The Tramuntana started to blow while I was leaving but nothing was going to spoil this day for Alba and Natxo!

Roser & John Solsona 10/6

What a day and what a venue. I have had loads of contact with Roser, Catalan, and no so much but enough with John, Irish. There wedding was a big one for me, half Catalan, half English! It was a joy, it really was, there was lots of fun and laughter and it was a true celebration, I am only sorry that I had to fly off to another wedding later in the day a mere 250km away!

Lizzy & Kudvik castell d'Empordá 10/6

Nigerian/American meets French guy in Senegal ... it had to be love and it was. A great couple and a fun ceremony, very colourful and enjoyed by all. I even got asked to join the official photos, now that is what you call: Being There (one of my favourite films BTW)!

Alessandra & Darren Castell de Sant Marçal 16/6

Summer really is here and making itself very much felt. The days are long, and for some lazy, they are hot but wonderful. Today in the Castell de Sant Marçal was a scorcher but Alessandra and the ushers did exactly what they should have, nobody sat too early, and the Swiss timing of Alessandra's entrance was perfect. Darren kept himself more or less together and none of us melted! All in all a pretty perfect day organise perfectly by Jennifer from Crystal Events .